I wrote this yesterday morning, then my day got busy, and I had to get myself home. I’m home now – and very glad of it.
22 June, 2017
So, the trip has actually turned out okay in the end. This actually isn’t a surprise, because that’s always how it happens. The thing is, it’s so damned costly, in terms of energy, attention, peace of mind, etc.
I’d do this more often, but that’s like saying, “Oh, I’ll eat cheesecake for every meal!” or “I think I’ll spend every penny in my bank account on a regular basis — drain my coffers as soon as they start to fill up — and see how that works out.”
Short-term, it’s fun and exciting. Long-term, it’s absolutely brutal. And for the record, it makes no difference whether the expenditure is on something fun and uplifting, or something miserable and obligatory. It’s all expenditure. And now I’m looking at another couple of weeks of recovery… I just need to take it easy for the next while.
I’m glad I came, though. I made some good connections with actual peers. I work in pretty much of a bubble at work. Due to staffing cuts, I’m the only one in my “group” who does my kind of work. There are others who sorta kinda handle the same stuff I do, but I’m “an army of one” in my particular domain. It has its advantages, but it can also be isolating.
I’m running out of energy to keep writing, so I’ll leave it at that.
It was good to connect with others — and in my own very autistic way, actually. I had a few “bumpy” experiences at the start, and I began to feel down on myself about it. But I decided to ignore my sense of social failure — it could be wrong, after all, given my sometimes acute alexithymia which gets very confused about what’s really going on and how I’m really feeling.
In the end, it was a good idea to ignore my sense of social ineptitude, and just keep going. I ended up making some good connections, and I got some good information. And for that, I’m grateful.
Now I’m home again. And very grateful for that. Now, to get back to my regular routine, and my regular life.
It’s a beautiful day today.