Sharing: Autistic Aloneness: When Coping Mechanisms Go Bad | Psychology Today

Navigating in the “normal” world, for a person with Asperger’s, can be difficult, if not downright painful.  The most difficult area for me to handle, personally, is rejection.  While some people with autism or Asperger’s report a reduced desire for human attachment, the reality for many of us is to want it very much, but struggle to achieve it. 

Researchers often call this difficulty to connect with others “autistic aloneness.” Like many people like me, I have learned to mimic social behavior well enough to get along.  I work, have friends, and social relationships…but the real issue comes when things get beyond superficial.  When the very coping mechanisms that get us through surface interactions, not only fail, but cause additional problems.

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